Submitted by: Affordable Elegance Catering

Marriage is undisputably one of the biggest decisions most people ever make in their lives. Many a young lady has been planning her wedding day since she first marched her Barbie doll down the aisle to meet Ken. The exhilaration of the engagement announcement can fade far too quickly; turning that same little girl and her storybook wedding dreams into a terrifying horror story.

There s no need to wake up in the middle of the night screaming in terror. Tossing and turning and sleepless nights are absolutely avoidable. Good news! In my experience in Kansas City Catering, I have learned that wedding dreams really can come true! So, what s the secret to resting easy during the wedding planning process? The best advice that applies to wedding planning is no different than what you would give to accomplish any complex task. How do you eat an elephant (or a gigantic piece of wedding cake)? The answer, rhetorically speaking, is one bite at a time.

Oddly, people dream about weddings during times of stress and difficulty. Many people experience feelings of bitterness or regret during these dreams. Based on superstition, some ancient cultures believe that the meaning of dreams – wedding is negative and that it can portend death or grief. It certainly does predict the wish to be supported or loved by another and many people experiencing difficulties may find emotional support in short supply and thus dream about a wedding.

There is a lot of lore about what dreaming about a wedding means. For instance, if a woman dreams about marrying an old man then she will suffer a period of misfortune.

To dream that you are the bride and yet cannot see the groom’s face means that enemies are near. If you are the groom and you cannot see the bride’s face, the meaning is the same.

If you dream that you are at a wedding and there is a person wearing black there that means that you will soon lose a friend.

If you dream that you are an attendant at a wedding, then you can expect great good fortune and prosperity.

If you are wearing a wedding dress in your dream it can mean distrust in your relationship or the need to assess it to see if it still suits you. If you dream of someone else wearing a wedding dress, it can mean you feel inferior to that person or somehow unworthy.

If you see a wedding ring on your finger in a dream it can mean that you will soon find true love. If you dream you are remarrying your current spouse, it denotes great happiness.

The wedding planning process in its entirety can be overwhelming. Break it down into pieces; remind yourself of simple slogans, like one step at a time , take it easy , how important is it? Prioritize the planning process. Focus your time, effort and resources on the things that are important to you. Be careful of moving too quickly which may lead to decisions being made with unexpected domino effects. One the other hand (which hopefully is sporting some BLING), be cautious of over-analyzing decisions. Each decision made is an item marked off the proverbial wedding to-do list and can add the precious Z s to a good night s sleep.

Rest easy! With careful planning and the help of well-qualified resources, your wedding dreams really can come true. Sweet dreams!

About the Author: Dee-Dee Stokes is the owner of Kansas City s Affordable Elegance Catering and has over 20 years experience in wedding and event planning. Visit her website at

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